So I have a friend who is pregnant. The guy is a real loser, and she's not making a lot of money but she's got a good heart and I know she'll do everything she has to to be a good mom. But thats not the topic here. the topic is WHY IS IT that every guy that talks to me about it is all "She's stupid. I'd just get an abortion" like it's THAT simple and like she is completely incapable of raising a kid on her own. I swear it makes me want to choke them out

Nobody brings up adopting the rugrat out?

I don't think people should ever recommend abortion. Everyone knows it's an option, so if they haven't brought it up there is a reason and people should respect that.

I just had this arguement with one of my friends, which is what inspired this whole thread

XXX:is she keeping the lil bastard
or is she droppin it
ME:keep
XXX:whyyyyyy omg she can't even keep herself together. I'd get an abortion.
ME:shut it
ME:I don't want to have this arguement with you
ME:you are a man and have never been pregnant or ever had to actually consider what you would do or how you would feel if you were and were faced with having to kill the little thing with fingers and a heart that was a part of you and taking up residence inside of you
ME:Lately I find myself wishing men were not allowed to talk at ALL when it comes to having babies because you have no clue what it's like
XXX:right, men have nothing to do with making babies
ME:Its not as cut and dry as saying Oh, I'd get an abortion
ME:Right. Making them...
ME:you just cum
that's it
XXX:and boy do I!
ME:it's not dependant upon you for life
ME:it doesn't live in you for 9 months and you don't have to push it out and go through all of the crazy hormonal fun that it puts you through before and after
XXX:i'm done
XXX:we are not arguing about it
ME:you can not even weigh in with "Hey we help make it"
ME:Sorry'you made the fatal mistake of starting the discussion with a woman
ME:you ought to know better
ME:save your simple "I'd get an abortion" type comments for conversations with other dudes who do not think about it in depth like women have to
XXX:shit
XXX:I'd help her get an abortion
throwing down the stairs time
Me:yes. It's a hilarious topic, isn't it?

because it's evolutionarily beneficial to every guy other than the father.

or, guys are dicks. Take your pick.

Besides that, if the woman can love the child and do everything in her power to give it the best possible home that she can, then she will be a fine mother.

@krissyjo: But what if he WANTS a watermelon shoved up his ass?