OK, I'm a bit distracted by Bridget Jones (and don't post here if you don't think she's a fabulous role model for drunk, sexless women in their 30s) but I am in New Jersey, and was considering a get-together in New Jersey and then I thought, maybe Phili, and then I just remembered that The Homecoming is being staged in New York. Does anyone care? If you do, don't call my cell phone (I think my niece lost it) but email or post here or call my parents phone, which I won't directly post (because I've learned) but it's the