i hate when something really trivial in my relationship really bothers me.
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but sometimes, it's like i just can't help it!
thankfully--or at least hopefully--the moments are few and far between...i think...i really hope.
hahah also, but calling her the "annoying girlfriend" that was the nicest thing anyone has ever said about her.
@twigby: much as i hate to be hard on my own sex, i totally believe that there are some girls out there who relish it.
@rink - nah, he's been warned, he still stayed with her for 4 years and is now marrying her. it's his fault now. we all told him.
@skanko: DUDES WITH LOW SELF-ESTEEM. it's a problem. but, who knows, maybe it will work out well in the end? maybe?
@twigby: awww! but you haven't settled for some annoying bitch, so you're okay!
Do trivial things sometimes bother you in friendships too, or just your relationship?
@bizzy: ummm...for me? not usually in my friendships. but that's because my friendships don't involve quite so much give and take. usually, the scenarios that sometimes irk me in my relationship wouldn't ever really come up in a friendship.
@rink - nah he's not low self esteem either. i guess there's just something we are all missing. and as long as he's happy its cool, but the kid has a good amt of money, and works his ASS off for it, I just dont wanna see him lose half of that to this crazy ass.
@bizzy: okay. good.
i mean, everyone gets annoyed with their s.o. from time to time. it's bound to happen. i just hate when i'm in that phase. i just know that it is so ugly to be like that. especially because most of the time, i know that my boyfriend had no ill intentions in whatever it was he did.
@skanko: i guess that maybe there's a side to her that most of the world doesn't see? so maybe it's not as bad as it appears?
@rink - HAHAH i have no idea. i hope so. i knew her pretty well before they got together though, she was alright, then she got with him and changed completely. its fucking scary.
scary indeed! it's weird how friend selves and relationship selves can be so different!
I dont like being bothered by small things that bother me, even outside my relationships. Nagging slight annoyances are as waste of time to me. But unless its big enough to fix, its not worth worrying about. I say this only to remind myself that i need to keep this in mind.
this very thought alone is likely why i've basically never been in a relationship....
man, i need to fix that
@noel: good thinking. i try to only worry very much about fixable things, as you say. your statement puts a good perspective on things!
@garak: i had apparently made up in my head that you were a baby-daddy.
confession: sometimes i get people's lives on the internet a bit confused. please don't take too much offense, because i do it ALL THE TIME.
okay. i'm starting to just feel annoying in general now. i'm gonna go work.
@rink - wow, really...? interesting. i'm not quite sure what this says about me, but...
@garak: i don't know why, but i just started thinking about how these bizarre associations start in my brain. someone in consu-history was, indeed, a baby-daddy...but how those two lives became one in my mind? i honestly have no idea.

i hate being an annoying girlfriend!