I've got the single blues today.
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You're d'adorable and you have people preoccupied with *you*! Make your many admirers do all the work!
well apparently i attract the lazy ones hahaha
but really, my best friend/roomy is practically moved out with his new girl (no comment), other biffle is 2 years in with the man i'm pretty sure she'll marry, other biffle is moving in with hers next fall, and other biffle just met a new boy that treats her like a million dollars.
and sure i could have a boyfriend if i didn't care who he was, but i wanna fall in luuuuurrve :(
@manuel- i dunno, that is debatable... i mean every relationship will have its ups and downs but if your with a person its because you know that they're there for you if you really need it, despite that, right? or am i in dreamland?
ur up in the boston area right? or am i completely wrong on this? i forget things.
agreed.
plus if i AM right, that city is FULL of dudes. its like over run with them, just keep your eyes peeled and maybe start being a bit more agressive. not ridiculous or anything but a bit more HEY HI I'M MOLLY WHATSUP?
i'mma canuck :) i live in the capital city... challenge! who knows it WITHOUT GOOGLE
(total guess. i was WAY off, WHY DIDNT I REMEMBER THAT?!?!)
how is it there, i've never been.
skanko- i am! i play vlleyball and meet all kinds of boys throguh that and school and i'll ask people o go out and do stuff and it just seems like nothing every materializes
toy- i blush
haha win! its great, i love this city... in the summer. there's a great volleyball community so i get to play like 6 hours a week, and the canal makes for great rolleblading and running, and there's an arboretum along the bike paths thats so perfect for lying on a blanket all day and doing whatever.
i HATE winter. and being cold. i need to buy the most epic winter jacket ever.
@sparky- hehe that reminds me of a comic i used to read, long story, but it made me giggle
Well, if it makes you feel better, I've dated a zillion girls and nothing ever lasts. Not a totally uncommon thing.
@sparky - snow i pretty when its not too cold. but i'd give it up pretty easily. i'm the person who can be in the worst mood ever, and just go lay down in the sun and soak in the heat and nature and i'll be happy again... this does nto work in the winter
Oh man, I agree with community toy. It seems I'm the world's best friend. :-(
@toy - the closest thing i've had to dating in the last 3 years was this guy i hooked up with semi-consistently for a while, and that was actually even more depressing. he was suck.
i'm for sure good at getting friended... i'm always one of the guys damnit
haha i actually went out as a boy for halloween, just to get the last laugh on my guy friends... because i was a boy in a fedora, tie, suspenders, white tank, and short shorts. and heels. lots of win.
I'm not good at getting friended. I'm good at really brief, lovey doveyness and then totally never being spoken to again or just "eh you are okay we are sleeping together for a couple weeks". Both of these end up with them never ever speaking to me again.
@toy- i don't encounter that problem, experience has taught me that sleeping with people within the first few weeks results in bad things, so waiting is the game for he who wants in my pants.
Wow, you look great!
If you are a boy and a girl wants to sleep with you and you say no for any reason they get super offended and won't speak to you again.
there ain't nothing wrong with the waiting game. good on you.
@spark- laksa? eh?
toy- i think i would be more dumbfounded than anything, just because i have never encountered a boy to say no. but i think i'd also be impressed.
(that being said, i've never asked for sex, its always been asked of me)
i always feel like guys just want sex, so i think a guy who wanted to hold off on it for a bit (not til marriage mind you, i couldn't do that) would be good for me. has trust issues.
@molly, laksa is this spicy coconut noodle soup. Best lunch ever.
Community Toy is right. I haven't turned down sex very often, but when I have the repercussions were unpleasant.
that sounds like delish. and... lunch?? what time zone you in, yo??
see that ight be because girls are almost NEVER turned down for sex for a reason other than "i am not attracted to you" so they would take it as such. i would wonder, for sure.
The last time was "I don't want to have sex with you because I am sober and you are too drunk to stand up." Turns out that trying to explain that to somebody too drunk to stand up is a difficult problem.
I'm in Sydney. It's spring here, which means I'm having the single blues pretty much every day.
its fall here, everyone is shacking up for the cold months.
i want someone to keep my hands warm :(
JAAAAAAY!!!! i missed you too!!! but i am back. probably not as much as i'd like to be cause of school, but i can at least drop in now and then.
and holy crap, HUGS. and lots and lots of love your way. and more hugs
I have these blues lately as well.
Ps: nice to see you 'round again!
Awww, thanks. I understand about being busy. It'll be good to talk to you again. :)
chrome- i'm usually awesome with being single, and even now i'm feeling a bit less bluesy than i was earlier, but that might be because i went out and ran into a cute boy. but i feel like it takes so little to launch my hopes up and then they crash down even if there wasn't much there to begin with
ps. i MISSED YOU GUYS !!! hearts
@jay :D:D:D:D
@Molly - I really don't understand how guys aren't clawing and fighting each other for your attention, honestly.
@jay- guys do pursue now and then, but either i'm not that into them or it just doesn't happen, i dunno, i've got high standards. and a lot of guys my age are just out for sex. i'm 2nd year university, lets be honest here.
@matthew- i'm shy too. bite the bullet. it gets easier every time. my problem is i have an easy time starting to talk to people, but a hard time opening up and getting beyond that.
@Molly - Well, some of us are okay, but a healthy bit of skepticism never hurt anyone. :D

all my friends are wildly in love with someone and totally preoccupied with them
WHEN IS IT MY TURN