please consider giving me an early (in fact, preemptive) wedding present!

http://cbs5.com/local/proposition.8.poll.2.834082.html

the latest poll shows that if the election were held today, prop 8 would pass in california, meaning millions of other californians and i will lose our right to marry, and go back to being second-class citizens whose relationships are deemed less worthy and less real than those of straight people.

the anti-marriage-equality movement in california has outraised us (about $25 million compared to $15 million, and it appears that it's their advertising that turned public opinion against us). so please, go to http://www.noonprop8.com/home and help us get the message out.

(sorry to repeat this--it's just kinda important to me.)

Consider it done.

thanks, guys.  :-)

i know it's pretty illogical, but assuming someday i finally meet the right person, i'd like to have a wedding--you know, where your friends and family come from all over the place to make witty/heartfelt toasts and celebrate with you--but i think i'd just feel too silly sending invitations to a "domestic partnership registration."  it's just not the same.

(They're the major out-of-state donors to yes on 8 organizations, I've heard.)