Girls, please... come in here, I need your help.
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I'm due to appear 'slightly naked' (slightly naked being bras and panties only) in a show soon. I'm slightly okay with that, as long as I find the appropriate 'apparel'. IE lingerie. My one stop shop, Torrid is letting me down. Anyone got other ideas or sources.
Think, burlesque. I checked Fredericks, they seem slightly promising.
They (the powers that be) rather have g-strings and the like, but a g-string on me is like cottage cheese and floss. NO CAN DO! I'm allowed at least bra and panties.
What's a 190#, 5'2" girl to do?
I can manage pulling together enough balls to 'own it', but still, some kind of help would be nice. I have a few things already in my possesion that I think I can use. Some kind like waist lacy thing that covers my butt... And some halter thingy...
I was in tears when I first heard about this. But.. I have to get over it.
see, you can't call for just girls to come in and ask their advice....
and then begin a post that has the overheard phrase "i'm due to appear slightly naked" in it
by frilly french knickers, I mean exactly what google images tells you when you search for it.
@garak: True.
@slp: I've seen those around. I like the coverage there. I'll have to check them out.
I mean there's no faking it, we all know I'm fat, I can't hide that. And there's no one there I'm trying to impress. (A point I keep repeating in my head to 'get over' this).
I want to do like a corset, but I have no chest, and I don't want to spend oodles of money.
Katy perry
Corsets are great for no chest, that means you can pretty much go with the generic kind because you don't need a fitting.
while i dont condone this for a red carpet, for your situation its fine
OMG. darling. i am having the same situation right now and i can't find anything!
today, i decided i will be looking all over the place. i'll link you to everything i find that i like.
my main concern is I CANNOT DO SHEER. i have a feeling you feel the same way. we're going to find you something mega sexy!
@artschooled- la senza currently has padded bras and non-sheer undies covered in ruffles (so they look like those frilly french knickers).
@artschooled: I'm thankful that the venue will be nice and dark, SUPER CROWDED, and full of drunken idiots. But there are still people there that I have to see again the next day. :(
I'm not kidding, either. I enjoy lovefifi.com a lot. I bought some CUTE pannies from there.
sarah: frig. i wish i could express to you how much i love la senza! omg. i think you just made my day! i like those little adorable ruffle undies and i'm stoked to hear they aren't sheer. why is sheer such a huge trend right now?
manuel, you're going to look fantastic! don't worry, seriously. i feel sexiest in ridiculous patterned cotton panties. you're going to have to find something that works for you- the thing that makes you sexiest is when you've got confidence. i have faith with all this help it's going to happen!
there are a few cute ones here: http://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-lingerie/corsets-bustiers.htm
i like these ones:
http://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-lingerie/corsets-bustiers/Jacquard-Bustier-with-Camisole/DG4294.htm (with a pair of little knickers like sarah suggested!)
the candy cane one is cute, too, but comes with a g-string.
@art: Yeah I was checking out that site, they have a ton of stuff.. I wouldn't even mind something as simple as this http://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-lingerie/Closeout/Lace-Trim-Camisole-and-Boy-Short/DW1324.htm
I think at least if I had a pair of 'boy short' cut underwear I'd be covered enough where I wouldn't panic.
Oh, also, I have to try to keep this as close to 'black, burgundy, and silver' as I can.
oh!!! I really, really like the one you linked to. it would be adorable in black.
I'm gathering a bunch of courage and ideas from here http://www.bigburlesque.com/
http://www.misssugarpuss.com/photos_dannygirl.html
she's one of my fav burlesque ladies, she should give you some sexy courage.
I think this one is amazing, but I would be interested in seeing the front:
Ooo! I'd love these http://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-lingerie/extended-sizes/Lacy-Boyshort-Panty/EL3311.htm
And I'll just wear a black bra.....
I'll drink enough beer beforehand so I won't notice. LOL
I can't find any really exciting bras... http://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-lingerie/bras/Le-Mystere-Swirl-Full-Figure-Bra/LM9233.htm
Except for that...
Where would I go for like sparkley ones? Flashy and stuffs
the problem with this situation is you probably don't want to spend a lot of money... and the most flattering stuff will be more expensive.
does it have to be plain, or could you embellish it? because adding some long fringe to the bottom of the bra could give you a bit more coverage.
a frederick's corset isn't good for much more than covering the stomach- they don't stand up to cinching, but can be effective for looks. they're not too pricey either, and come in many colors. you could find a corset and a matching lacey boyshort to wear (a nude thong underneath provides you with nether-safety.)
you can get a sparkly bra at a bellydance place, but they're more expensive. i would suggest buying what you want and adding it yourself.
@pepper: Yeah, right now I can't spend too much. I'm lucky I even found out about this this early. I do plan on making a better investment eventually, cause I know this will be required of me (or hell I'll want to do it voluntarily) again in the future.
but I think I can get creative on a bra or to.
I'm not worried about squeezing or shaping so much, just want to not burn people retinas. So a little lace here or sheer there... a little less shocking. If that's posssible. :P
you could buy a lace camisole probably. just make sure (no matter what you choose) to wear a nude thong underneath. because things get crazy on stage and you don't want to worry about your PRECIOUS MOMENTS.
I have a blue Fredricks of Hollywood corset you can borrow, if you'd like. It would look great with some lacy shorts.
@mizsarah: That'd be most awesome if I was allowed to wear blue. :( I can only wear black, burgundy or silver.
So I'm home now and I'm running around in my bra and underwear. I think I can do this. I have to 'own it' ...
I can do it.
I actually have a burgundy leather one as well. You should come see if it fits you.

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