Just got stalked by a rather cute - and, at first glance, cool-seeming - girl whose profile I'd given high marks to on OKC, and she rated me similarly. But: no message. I guess this would probably be the time wherein I make the first move...
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You're the dude. It defaults to you my friend. It looks like she likes what she's seen on your profile so far, so it seems like you have a good chance so far.
The girls that tend to message me first aren't generally worth messaging back, to be honest.
The girls that message me first usually want me to send money to them in foreign countries.
and don't be totally surprised if she doesn't ever write back... stalking, winking, etc., seems to mean very little. but definitely write!
this is all very sound advice...
and, yeah, Corey I think you're right - that's been my experience, sad to say.
thanks, gents

Go for it.