Girls help me out. How would you like to be asked out?
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No thanks!
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The Mad Silentist said, (112 days ago)
Well I mean I want to figure out ways to ask someone out but the post could be seen as me asking all of you if you want me to ask you out.
daisy half-wit said, (112 days ago)
"Would you like to __________ with me?" You fill in the blank with whatever you want to do on the date.
cupcakes, really. said, (112 days ago)
Girls like to be asked out?
...HAVE I BEEN ASKING GUYS OUT THIS WHOLE TIME?
The Hatshepsut said, (112 days ago)
Notes are cute. Little things that make you think of her are cute too. Is this someone you know or something you are just getting to know?
The Mad Silentist said, (112 days ago)
@Shiny(I refuse to call you anything else) I feel like that doesn't really convey what I want because this girl and I are really good friends so if I was like would you like to go to the movies with me she wouldn't think anything of it.
@Johnny It's okay it took me a while to figure that out too. At least we had all those nice man dates together.
@Hats This is someone I've known for a long time but we spent the whole summer together after a long period of estrangement while we were in other relationships and now we've been hanging out a lot and I'm reasonably sure there is romantic interest and I'm trying to figure out how to ask her to take our relationship to the next level.
The Mad Silentist said, (112 days ago)
Basically, last Friday we hung out at her apartment and drank a little and we ended up in bed together cuddling but then I saw her afterwards and it was slightly awkward because she's such a timid person I think she scared herself by being so forward because she instigated all the cuddling. I think she freaked herself out so she was a little distant. So I'm trying to figure out how to ask her if she wants to go further.
portableteejay said, (112 days ago)
@Mad Silentist: how did you meet this girl? and how long have you met her?
The Mad Silentist said, (112 days ago)
@Shiny I wanna make it like super cutesy.
@Portable I met her through mutual friends in high school. I've known her collectively for like 4 years but we've really only hung out for maybe a year of that.
DJ Qelyn said, (112 days ago)
Bitch, let's do this. And don't say no, cause I have a bottle of chloroform and a rag that can change your mind real quick.
T.S. Eliot said, (112 days ago)
Tell her that you think she is A+ and that you really really want to hang out with her more. Yeah, do that.
valkyrie blondhaar said, (111 days ago)
Make it apparent you like her (without laying your heart on the line) and then suggest a fun activity. I recommend avoiding just asking her to "hang out."
The Mad Silentist said, (111 days ago)
@Valkyrie I wanna make it nonchalant like that but I'm afraid that it will not be apparent enough that I like her.
valkyrie blondhaar said, (111 days ago)
@The Mad Silentist: Try this - smile a lot when you're with her and compliment her from time to time.
The Mad Silentist said, (111 days ago)
@Valkyrie Luckily I find it difficult to not smile when I'm around her and I'm pretty good about the complementing but is the whole "Will you go out with me?" thing antiquated? I just don't know how to ask for us to be together without being awkward.
valkyrie blondhaar said, (110 days ago)
Don't just ask "Will you go out with me"! Propose an activity for the two of you to do together; "Wanna go to this concert with me?" "Wanna check out the new Saw movie?" "I've been wanting to check out this hiking path nearby. I'd love to have you along."
The Mad Silentist said, (110 days ago)
@Val I'm just worried because we've spent so much time with each other in the last couple of months that asking her to go out would imply something different. I need to figure out how to make her know it's a date.
I just realized that this could be misconstrued.