I'm giving up on my bartender crush. I gave him the perfect opportunity to ask me out if he wanted to and he didn't go for it. Oh well. I'm still going to the bar, though.

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ABoyNamedArt said, (101 days ago)

Wait. You didn't ask him out yourself? That's kinda passive-aggressive ...

krissyjo said, (101 days ago)

@Art - I did ask him out. He said yes... then hemmed and hawed. I asked him if he wanted to go and he said it was the play he wasn't really interested in. (He's a theatre guy so I figured he'd be fine with going to see a play with me. It's one of Shakespeare's lesser known plays and he said he didn't like bad Shakespeare.) So I told him not to worry about it. He seemed indifferent and didn't say anything about a rain check or doing something else that night.

I'm assuming he doesn't want anything beyond a bartender/clientele relationship with me. Which I can deal with.

krissyjo said, (101 days ago)

And I don't want to come off as the desperate clingy girl.

ABoyNamedArt said, (101 days ago)

Ok, given that explanation, I'm more inclined to agree with your play. So, what if he asks you out tonight/relatively soon?

krissyjo said, (101 days ago)

Well I don't think I can fully give up on my crush considering the gals and I will still be going in there every Monday. I'm basically just not pursuing him as I was before or going to worry about trying to get him to ask me out. If he comes around and I'm available, I'll be on it. Haha

soulcamp said, (101 days ago)

Seriously, I would go see Celion Dion if a girl I dug asked me to go with her. Move on.

OK, on second thought - I would never go see Celion Dion under any circumstances. But still...

Jubilee! said, (101 days ago)

ONNNNCEEE MOOOOREEE

YOU OOOPPENNED THE DOOOOR

ABoyNamedArt said, (101 days ago)

Soulcamp: Speaking of Celine Dion, you up for some karaoke?

hey jude said, (101 days ago)

@Soulcamp - Misspelling "Celine" is the first step to full-on loathing.

krissyjo said, (101 days ago)

That was so uncalled for... I blame you soulcamp, for bringing the evil of Celine Dion into my thread.

ABoyNamedArt said, (101 days ago)

Krissy, I apologize for Soulcamp. Can't take him to any nice sites, I swear. Please accept this link as an offering of peace:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-mVCuUE6hhs

krissyjo said, (101 days ago)

I'm scared to click it... I have a feeling it will be EVIL

ABoyNamedArt said, (101 days ago)

No, no, not evil at all. No Celine in the clip.

krissyjo said, (101 days ago)

Okay I'm gonna trust you...

krissyjo said, (101 days ago)

DUDE I'm so happy I clicked on that. That made it much better :)

soulcamp said, (101 days ago)

@Johnny: I refuse to spell her name correctly out of fear it will link us in a google search.

@Art: Maybe. I've got to finish this project this weekend, but I could use a little time away from the house. My biggest issue is that I've been getting VMs and txts from a certain someone all week long and haven't responded because I haven't had time to deal with that, so it could get a little ugly.

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