It kinda sucks to find out that your ex is in a new relationship while your heart still yearns for him.
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Ain't that the truth. I have a feeling I'll see them at the wedding I'm DJ'ing Sunday.
Meh, every woman I've ever dated has always hopped off of me and onto someone else within a week. Frankly I just expect it now.
My ex made out with the girl he broke up with me for, the day before he broke up with me.
They got married a month later.
He was a virgin when I met him.
What annoys me is that he and I had lunch just a couple weeks ago and that's when he told me he had started dating someone. But he went out of his way to say "Oh but it's not serious or anything yet!" like he really wanted to make sure I knew.
Well it seems that's changed now.
I really wish my bartender crush would come through now.
Every time someone leaves me for someone else, I end up pushing myself really hard. They can knock however many holes in me they want, I'll fill it up with something they can't ever take away.
Only tools require relationships to be happy.
Even when your heart does not yearn, it still sucks.
Don't worry about it, he is the same person you broke up with.
Word up Namrok! Either immerse yourself in work, or find huge amounts of new cock/pussy!
YESSSSS!
I read that as cockpussy, and thought about the possibility of finding a cockpussy and burying myself in it...
@centro: Yup. Sucked big time. But this is where I used the advise I give many just-recently-broken-upee's, Drop all communication.
I bent the rule a few times to peak in on his blog, but that wasn't until a year later, and thats how I found out he got married.
But if it wasn't for him I would have never started windsurfing, and now an instructor. :D I'm plenty over it, the break up, it was about 2 1/2 years ago.
Sorry, but it kinda goes with the territory when you date attractive, interesting people. All the decent girlfriends I had were either kinda dating other guys when I met them or JUST out of a really long relationship. When it was over, they moved on real quick, too.
As a friend of mine once said, for some people, relationships are like apartments: you don't leave one until you're sure you've already got the next one lined up.
Just keeping my fingers crossed for you. Pain of this sort has really kept me down recently.
@JasAsian: Hah, thats a nice way of putting it. The expression I've always heard went a little differently.

amen sister!
luckily my ex lives 400+ miles away so i don't have to worry about running into the happy little couple!