My confidence level drops when I go out with her.
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I'm fine with this picture. But I suppose it's the fact that she's the pretty blonde who can make herself look fabulous without even trying. I feel like I need to put an effort into it, or else I look frumpy. When we are out, guys flock to her and ignore me. Just a fact of life that I'm trying to deal with.
I'd take either one of you out on the town.
You look like you'd have fun making splashes in the mud puddles, and she'd just bitch about it.
So, tell me who wins?
Then don't go out with her... or correct the internal thinking that makes you feel less than her.
An external thing shouldn't affect you internally and what you think about yourself.
Donno how to put it...she looks happier? More approachable? On looks alone I don't see why you'd lose.
@kj: i'm not saying that we should feel this way, because i'm pretty certain we shouldn't, but i TOTALLY feel your pain.
where i used to live, whenever i went out there were hot girls everywhere. i couldn't take it. and i felt that i had to hotten up my wardrobe significantly.
but now i've moved, and there are much more weird places to go with, like, quirkily attractive people. it's such a relief.
but really, i think that stuff like this is why i just don't really have any super hot friends. i subconsciously know it would just mess up my brain.
See, and this may sound bad, but I feel like on looks she has me beat... but on personality, I like to think I have a bit more to offer. She's very much of the princess mindset, whereas I'm more a of a guy's girl and don't care whether or not someone is taking care of me. I love her to death and she and I bonded over broken hearts, but there are often times when I look at her and wonder how the hell we are friends. Though I suppose it's a good balance of sorts...
Plus I suppose it drives me crazy that we'll make a last minute decision to go somewhere and say "Let me throw something on" and within 5 minutes she looks like she can be in a fashion magazine. Then when we compliment her on looking amazing in a short amount of time, she finds a handful of faults with her outfit (ie she wore the shirt yesterday, the jeans don't cover the heels enough, she needs a different necklace) while the rest of us are in jeans and t-shirts and look like we just rolled out of bed.
Stupid insecurity.
I have a really hot friend, but I don't midn going out with her. She is really nice. Face-wise I think we are comparable, but she works out like crazy so she ahs a way better body. But the funny thing is, I mean I figure as long as one person thinks that I'm hot that's all that matters.
You're both blisteringly hot. I should make my road trip to Nashville!
You look great, but if it helps, you could try hanging out with uglier people.

i don't think it should
just saying...