Reading this elsewhere amused me.
So the other day I heard a commercial say, 'Girls and women are under more pressure than ever to be skinny!'
I said out loud, 'Then why are more of them fat?'
I think half the people that heard me thought I was a horrible evil male and the other half were thinking, 'Yeah, why is that?'
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I don't feel the pressure to be skinny. I think most women do, however, practice terrible diet regimens that have the adverse effect on their weight tho. I think there is a lot of pressure to please others...
and yes.....down with you evil observational males!
I don't think it's just girls either - it's just the nature of the lazy beast...
perhaps more of them are fat because they've heard it decreases the odds of having to converse with you.
i'd imagine weight is getting to be more of a bimodal distribution, in both genders.
@le_sacre: Why do you think that is? The people that can pull it off do, and the rest just go "fuck it" and start bragging about how big they can grow their gunt/how long its been since they last saw their own wang?
Nam, it has to do with a change in dietary habits and lifestyle among the american population in the past 50 years. from the explosion of fast food in the american culture, to the decrease in recess and PE from the grade school curriculum.
also, the definition of fat and skinny has changed a lot. it's been mentioned a lot in these sorts of discussions, but marilyn monroe, by today's standards, is a bigger girl, a size 12 if i remember right.
Careful. Fat is a very sensitive word. I think we spend too much time sitting on our asses in front of the computer, not enough time actually doing anything. I'm very guilty of this. After sitting on my ass all day at work, I spend an hour tops on the fake bicycle at the gym before I'm like "fuck it, I'm gonna go watch movies in bed."
@C&M: That wasn't quite what I was asking. I get why people are getting fatter, although I still hold people accountable for their own bodies. I was asking why le_sacre thought it was become a bimodal distribution. As in, the population is dividing into two clusters. A cluster of skinny/normal people, and a group of super fatassas, without much of a distribution in between.
And Marilyn's size 14 (at her biggest) would be a size 6 today.
Paris Hilton is usually around 4-6.
She is very skinny.
I think I'm pretty inbetween, although I'd love to get thinner, because I FELT better when I was thin and I like the way clothes fit on a thinner body. It's just more pleasing to me and I tend to hold other people to the same standards I do myself.
I did make my boyfriend pretty fat though. The guy is pushing 200 pounds, was about 160 when I first got a hold of him.
@ILG: i didn't know that, thanks. then again, female sizing doesn't make a lot of sense to me in general.
@nam: the reason for that has a lot to do with being able to afford a healthy diet. poor families have a harder time providing balance diets because it's expensive. cheaper food tends to be worse for you (especially fast food).
@C&M: AAAAAH. More sociological excuses. Is there anything a sociologist with enough time on his hands can't remove personal responsibility from?
so....you disagree that having a shitty diet makes you fat? and that the poor have shittier diets?
or, are you arguing that if they pull their bootstraps up their food would inherently be healthier because of their bootstraps being in the up position?
I disagree that the only diet a poor person can have is a McDonald's McShit.
it isn't a matter of disagreeing, its what a lot of people eat, and whether or not you think they should this has had a large impact on the waistline of this country. the cause and effect already exists, you don't get to disagree with it.
I guess more specifically, I can't deny that it's cheaper to put 1000 calories of utter shit into your body than it is to put 500 calories of ok stuff, or 250 awesome calories.
But seriously? I've been too poor to eat before. Not super poverty poor, by my income was about 8k, before taxes. And I chose the 500 ok calories as opposed to the 1000 gut buster calories. I lost a lot of weight, I had about 1 meal a day, but you know what, it happens?
nam: feed 2 kids. offer kids 250 calories a day and you'll end up in jail for neglect.
I guess my bottom line, is that with even rudimentary nutritional knowledge, you'd realize that the fewer, more expensive calories actually do more for you than the cheaper, less expensive calories. You spend the same amount, and you don't end up a fatass.
but if you feed your kids 250 calories a day they're going to be stunted and probably sick
Which makes me ask, who the FUCK has kids they can't afford to feed. Perhaps they should become wards of the state.
@nammy, you are making some very conservative sense on a very liberal site.
A lot of people wish the poor would stop having kids that they can only be assed to slop at McDonalds. I don't think it's going to stop.
@Namrok: i think bimodality arises from increasing and opposing influences: media imagery and scientific/pop research on fitness pushing people towards diet and exercise on one hand, and the saturation of society by cheap processed calories and the rise of car/couch culture on the other. i actually have no idea whether the distribution is truly bimodal, but i would guess at the very least that it's gotten a lot wider.
it's readily demonstrable that the "worst" calories in the grocery store are the cheapest, not to mention that having to work multiple jobs means that many of the poor don't have the spare time that many of us can afford to research, shop for, and prepare unprocessed meals (to say nothing of the educational gaps that might keep them from learning the importance of nutrition and teasing apart solid research from marketing claims).
i don't believe in "free will," so it's hard for me to discuss personal responsibility from anything other than a consequentialist standpoint (regardless of whether people are "responsible" for an action, how can we best improve quality of life for the greatest number of people?). but there's a lot of research documenting how difficult it is for even highly motivated people to lose weight. i think it's pretty easy for most of us who *don't* have these miscalibrated brain signals compelling us to eat too much to say, "well, golly, just don't eat so much!" but some of the same circuits subserving appetite and desire for food are the ones underlying drug addiction--and psychologists have been documenting for decades how "choices" that would appear (or be claimed to be) voluntary are anything but. i forget the guy's name, but there's a prominent psychologist who's conducted a lot of studies of eating and satiation behavior while controlling environmental variables, and seemingly trivial things like portion size have huge effects on consumption levels and self-reported hunger/satiety. the purveyors of manufactured food have been aware of these effects for some time.
I was lucky. My parents were poor, but we lived in Arkansas and had a lot of land for a garden and an apple tree. We pretty much only went in to town to buy meat in bulk to freeze for later.
It wasn't until I was broke AND driving that I found the inexpensive and convenient Del Taco.
When my parents first got married, they were SUPER poor, and all they could afford was boxes of store-brand macaroni & cheese, butter, and milk. They ate that shit EVERY SINGLE DAY and they were never skinnier than during that time.
People who have children they can't afford to feed:
Religious people who don't believe in birth control or abortion
People who were on birth control, had an accident, and are unwilling to abort or put the kid up for adoption.
People who had and were capable of affording children before losing their job.
People who had and were capable of affording children before an accident left them unable to work.
People who had and were capable of affording children before the untimely death of the major bread winner in the family.
People who had and were capable of affording children before a divorce left the primary caregiver in the lurch because the breadwinner refuses to do what they can for their kids.
I disagree that poor people can't afford to eat healthily.
Bread, rice, fruits, vegetables, etc are generally cheaper than fast food(per meal).
I think more of the direct cause of obesity is laziness and/or "overworking". If someone has an incredibly busy schedule, it's harder for them to prepare their own food, simply because they don't have time to do so. Or, if they do have time, they don't have the energy to do so.
What about the people that have kids because they were too lazy/stupid to use a condom and pop it out because all of a sudden having a baby sounds like fun? Because that's a good 20 or so of the girls I went to school with.
"People who have children they can't afford to feed:
Religious people who don't believe in birth control or abortion
People who were on birth control, had an accident, and are unwilling to abort or put the kid up for adoption."
These people are all STUPID and I have no sympathy for them. If you are so religious you don't believe in birth control or abortion, what the fuck are you doing having sex in the first place? You don't get to just pick and choose at your convenience.
The oops? Once again, they are unwilling to make a tough decision. The have options, they just don't want to take them.
As for the rest, we already have programs for most of those. I know plenty of people who are on foodstamps. Argue whether those programs are enough or not all you want.
But you still haven't gotten at my point that with just basic nutritional knowledge you'd realize that you do more harm than good by putting 1000 calories of shit into your body than the equivalently priced 500 ok calories. Which is the crux of why I think its not JUST because people are poor.
To me, it seems like those too lazy/stupid to use a condom would also be too lazy/stupid to choose some delicious spinach over a big mac. And then cry about being too fat and the media's obsession with thin.
When I lived in Disney World I was too poor to afford anything other than LOADS of Spinach, bread, and Kraft American singles. And Vodka.
Once a week we'd go to cici's pizza and throw down $5 and shove our faces full of pizza enough to last us starving for the rest of the week. I lost like 20 lbs when I was there. It was AWESOME.
my family was dirt poor when I was born (we lived in a barely-converted chicken coop) and we all ate the same crappy shit together, because crappy shit is cheap (not to mention processed food is cheap AND easy for people working multiple jobs just to keep the roof over their heads). However, that crappy food is tolerated by people in different ways. My ectomorphic father and endomorphic mother ate the same food, achieved about the same amount of activity, yet my father never gained a pound, while mother struggled.
There are myriad factors *why* people gain and lose weight, just like there are any number of reasons that some people grow up to be ignorant, angry douchebags.
Being fat could be the response of an emotional issue as well. Even if you could afford the healthiest food for your lifetime if eating crappy sweet things fills something for you emotionally it's hard to stop that pattern or even realize that is what is going on. I think more people aren't dealing with their issues and problems and turn to mcdonalds/dunkin donuts to make them feel better.
http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2008/07/24/does-fructose-make-you-fatter/index.html?hp
more confirmation that high fructose corn syrup is evil. last time i checked, about 6% of ALL the corn harvested in the U.S. is turned into high fructose corn syrup. that figure does not include regular old corn syrup.

it's a rebellion! I'm fat because of bitches like blowhan and the olsen twins!!!! Graaaaagh.