What was the hardest decision you ever had to make? How did you feel afterward?
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Leaving New Jersey. How I felt? .... hard to say. I think I felt every emotion possible other than anger.
Deciding whether or not to terminate my dad's life support. I decided we had to, but I wanted to wait one more day because it was Father's Day. So his mother took me to court to get the plug pulled early because she couldn't wait around 24 hours. So in the end I had no say really. But I did disown her.
... deciding between mom and dad when they split up? I felt fine until my father met the wicked stepmother of the west, though I did miss my ma, being Italian and all.
Dropping out of grad school, because it was literally making me crazy. I felt very relieved.
When I stopped going to college, because I knew I shouldn't be there. I felt like I let myself and most of my family down. But now I'm in the process of finishing my degree, and it's the greatest feeling ever.
1) testifying against a family member and sending him to prison. this destroyed his family, but he deserved to be there.
2) breaking up with my ex-fiancee, because i loved him and still love him, just not like that. at all. five years later we're friends again.
1) Having to decide whether to have an abortion when I was 17. And then dealing with the half-regret for the rest of my life for deciding not to have it.
2) Having to decide whether to have an abortion when I got knocked up again (ON birth control) and deciding to go ahead, but having to keep it a secret because most everyone I know would think I was a murderer.

moving from Chicago to Atlanta on 2 weeks notice. i do not regret it at all, best decision of my life