I just sent an email to an ex-friend apologizing to her. OH. GOD. Now I'm going to avoid my inbox for about 5 days.
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Thanks. It was very sincere and honest. However, she has a lot of apologizing to do to me, for just one day deciding to totally cut off all communication with me.
God! We are Trauma Twins.
Same thing happened to me in December. I've seen her once since then (I had to paint her bathroom, don't ask), and recently I have been thinking I see here everyday, but then I would console myself with the fact that she was 1800 miles away for the summer, with her boyfriend and family. But then I saw her boyfriend, seconds after I thought "Oh, hey this it prime running into ______ & ______ territory."
That's a snippet of my story, feel like telling us more of yours?
We were writing partners for over 3 years and then her interest in writing with me slowly tapered. I felt like I did something wrong, so I clung to her super hard, which was exactly the opposite thing I should have done. She told me that I was too needy and she couldn't handle me emotionally anymore. She and I haven't had a significant conversation since spring of last year. I miss her everyday, but she has new writing partners and seems like she's enjoying herself, so what to do?

Was your apology appropriate?
Was it sincere?
Then fear nothing.