Do you have frenemies? What about a nemesis?

hm. possibly.

I had a nemesis.

Emphasis on *had*.

i wish. i'd love to have an archenemy.

I do.
I was best friends with this girl from the time we were 2 years old up until 2 years ago. She flipped out on me and told me to never call her again. She said our lives were going in different directions and the fact that I called her to say happy birthday was borderline harassment(more like borderline personality disorder on her part) and now I consider her to be my nemesis.
LIke Superman and lex luther or Spiderman and his friend...

strange how that happens.

I'm taking applications, if there's any interest.

@and I law her: yeah and she had moved to CHicago and a couple weeks ago she just randomly showed up at this non-profit place that my brother works at...and where I volunteer and she wanted to be a volunteer. Apparently our lives aren't going in such different directions after all.

@ StillSleeping: was she going to the non-profit to see your brother or was it a coincidence? Cause that's odd.

@ Des: I'm jealous that you can't identify one. That says good things about you :) Plus, strong personalities are awesome.

i know a kid that thinks he's my nemesis because i once told him that i didn't think the girl he was trying to get with was going to be interested in him (she was a hardcore christian and he was a satanist. i didn't see that having long term potential).

He told me if I ever talked to her again he would fuck me up. I told him i was going to talk to her tomorrow because we had a class together. He took a swing at me, which missed (due to drunkenness). Since then he's bad talked me all over the place and I just laugh.

@ Art: at least with 40 people around, you can hopefully avoid her.

@ C & M: It's good that you can laugh it off. Some people would retaliate. Glad you're above that :)

@ Garak: Sounds like a good policy. Somehow, I feel like men have it easier avoiding this frenemy thing. Hmm.

And for J A: this is what you need to look for in an archenemy (again according to Chuck)

RECOGNIZING YOUR ARCHENEMY
•Every time you talk to this person, you lie.
•If you meet someone who has the same first name as this person, you immediately like him less.
•The satisfaction you feel from your own success pales in comparison to the despair you feel at this person's triumphs, even if those triumphs are completely unrelated to your life.
•If this person slept with your girlfriend, she would never be attractive to you again.
•Even if this person's girlfriend was a hateful bitch, you would sleep with her out of spite.

@ ginger: I have about 3 or 4 of those too.

I think my ex boyfriend is sort of a frenemy. I met his girlfriend on Monday and while I thought it went well and even felt stoked that I had walked out of there with no residual feelings for the guy, he sent me an email telling me that he thought the meeting was kind of awkward. I hope he gets over himself so he can be a friend.

Yes Art. He did. I just read that book

My nemesis would be this girl named Lana who dated my ex boyfriend Steve after we broke up. I secretly hope that her relationship with him ends in both his financial ruin, and her romantic loss. I also hope that their sex life blows.

i'm pretty sure based on the klosterman definition i have a nemesis but no arch enemy.

i also do not have any frenemies that i am aware of.

I've had many of them in the past. Now I don't, as far as I know.

BTown, are we your archenemies or your nemeses or your frenemies. be specific.

@centro: you're annoying and creepy, but not enough so that i waste effort thinking about it.